Tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? Longing for a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? Struggling under a load of resentment? Identify the source of missteps in your marriage-and learn exactly what you can do about it!
In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an "intimacy imprint"-an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs, and expectations of all relationships, especially your marriage. They identify four types of injured imprints that combine in marriage to trap couples in a repetitive dance of pain. The groundbreaking principles and practical, solution-focused tools in this book will equip you to... ·identify the imprints disrupting your marriage, ·understand how your love style impacts your mate, ·break free of negative patterns that hinder your relationship, ·enhance your sexual intimacy, and ·create the deeper, richer marriage of your dreams. Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships-including the authors' marriage-so you can stop stepping on each other's toes and instead be swept along by the music of a richer, more passionate relationship. Includes a study guide for individual or group discussion.
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Avg. Customer Rating: 5.0 / 5.0
Eye Opening:
Milan and Kay Yerkovich have put together a great book to help both good and struggling marriages. They describe five different personality types which are Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Controller, and Victim, and how couples can "dance" together in their marriage when they are two different types of personalities. We all have "imprints" from childhood in our lives and they influence us and how we relate to each other. They ask the question, also, of ever being comforted by our parents. Do you remember ever... more info
Possibly the Best Marriage Book I've Read:
Over the almost 12 years that we've been married, my husband and I have read many, many marriage books. Most have been Christian but there has been a smattering of secular ones as well. I think this is probably hands-down one of the very best we've ever read. It doesn't just describe your love needs or how you express love but goes deeper, getting to the root of why you love the way you do, the problems with that, and what to do about it. I keep recommending this book to others because it... more info
just what i was looking for:
This book is very helpful along with good counseling. Anyone can benefit from this book. It's about all relationships, not just marriage. And any personality type will relate to it. It's worth the money.
Awesome Book !!!!:
Having problems with your marriage? Need to know why you act the way you act? This book is for you if you answered YES to any of the questions above. Buy This Book...YOU WON'T REGRET IT! How We Love is an excellent tool for learning about your life and why you are the way you are.
